• QUESTION:  How do I deal with resenting someone for constantly taking advantage of my kindness?
  • ANSWER:  Here is a bigger question right back at you!

1. Are you being more kind to that person than being kind to yourself and keeping a boundary on what you are really willing and want  to do or doing it with a motive?

When we are resentful we can look at ourselves first.  Perhaps we gave too much and had an expectation that the person would greatly appreciate or return a favor.  

True giving is a gift of love, which is authentic and in simplest form, means I give only because I want to without expecting something in return.  Yes,  it's so darn hard to look at ourselves before blaming another but that is where our power to change exists.